{"id":1785,"date":"2021-09-28T13:05:34","date_gmt":"2021-09-28T13:05:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/?p=1785"},"modified":"2021-11-23T13:40:10","modified_gmt":"2021-11-23T13:40:10","slug":"warning-signs-that-your-child-is-being-bullied","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/warning-signs-that-your-child-is-being-bullied\/","title":{"rendered":"Warning Signs That Your Child Is Being Bullied"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">As parents, it\u2019s important to recognize the <\/span><a href=\"\/worldwide-pediatrics\/developmental-screening-delay-treatment-plantation-florida\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>\u200fwarning signs of bullying<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200f. Bullying is more prevalent than most people realize, and your child may not always speak up when it\u2019s happening. Knowing the following tell-tale signs of bullying enables you to act quickly, so your child doesn\u2019t keep suffering.\u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>\u200fBullying At School Tends to Affect Grades\u200f<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fThere are many signs of bullying at school, and it\u2019s no secret that many warning signs of bullying are school-related. One major red flag of bullying is when your child\u2019s grades take a hit. That\u2019s because your child will find it hard to concentrate in class with a bully constantly at their heels.\u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fThe signs of bullying at school will also follow your child home, as they may fail to do their homework or keep up with their studies, which affects their grades in the long term. \u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>\u200fYour Child May Start Skipping School and Related Activities<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><b><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1787 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYour-Child-May-Start-Skipping-School-and-Related-Activities\u200f.jpg\" alt=\"Upset Small Schoolgirl Having Trustful Conversation With Compassionate Young Mother\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYour-Child-May-Start-Skipping-School-and-Related-Activities\u200f-200x133.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYour-Child-May-Start-Skipping-School-and-Related-Activities\u200f-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYour-Child-May-Start-Skipping-School-and-Related-Activities\u200f-400x267.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYour-Child-May-Start-Skipping-School-and-Related-Activities\u200f-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYour-Child-May-Start-Skipping-School-and-Related-Activities\u200f-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYour-Child-May-Start-Skipping-School-and-Related-Activities\u200f-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYour-Child-May-Start-Skipping-School-and-Related-Activities\u200f.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/>\u200f<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fOne of the signs of bullying at school is when your child starts skipping school and related activities. Some symptoms of bullying at school are easy to recognize, such as when your child gets upset over waking up and going to school. \u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fOther times, signs of being bullied are not always obvious if your child is trying to hide it. They may pretend to attend classes while secretly skipping school. Also, if you look into their schedule, you may notice they\u2019re no longer engaged in their favorite school activities. Talk to your child without being confrontational to find out why they no longer enjoy their school life.\u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>\u200fYour Child May Change Their Eating and Bathroom Habits\u200f<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fWhen checking for signs your child is being bullied, watch out for any changes in their eating and bathroom behavior. For starters, one of the symptoms of bullying is if the victim prefers to do most of their business at home. \u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fThey will avoid bathrooms at school to avoid being a target, and they may also skip lunch only to binge-eat when they get home. The victim may also lose their appetite altogether in response to the emotional stress of being bullied.\u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>\u200fYour Child May Frequently Feel Sick (Or Pretend To)\u200f<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fAs mentioned, bullying at school may influence your child to dislike school and motivate them to skip classes. Therefore, one of the signs your child is being bullied includes using sickness as an excuse not to attend school. As far as signs of being bullied are concerned, it\u2019s not uncommon for victims of bullying to complain about having a headache or a stomach ache regularly. \u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fEven if they go to school, they might visit the nurse frequently in the hopes of getting sent back home. At times, bullying can actually affect your child\u2019s health, so they will frequently complain about not feeling well. If any of these signs of bullying set off an alarm, trust your gut feeling and dig deeper to discover what\u2019s happening in your child\u2019s life.\u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>\u200fBullying Often Results in Physical Damage\u200f<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fBullies like to inflict physical harm, so physical injuries are one of the top signs your child is being bullied. The majority of times, your child may struggle to explain the scrapes and bruises, and they could even try to cover the physical marks with clothing. \u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fThat\u2019s why you should also pay attention if your child frequently gets their clothing torn or if their belongings are always getting damaged or coming up missing. These are all signs of being bullied, especially if they occur at the same time. Investigate the matter and encourage your child to open up if they seem reluctant to offer a plausible explanation.\u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>\u200fYour Child May Have Trouble Sleeping\u200f<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fSymptoms of bullying can appear in every facet of your child\u2019s life, including when they are asleep. Some victims of bullying experience nightmares, while younger children may even start bedwetting. \u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fWhether your child is having trouble sleeping or sleeping more than usual, chances are they are not getting the quality of sleep they need if they are experiencing bullying. Therefore, the warning signs of bullying can extend to abnormal exhaustion, a worn-out appearance, difficulty concentrating, and general poor health due to lack of proper sleep.\u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>\u200fYour Child\u2019s Social Life May Suffer\u200f<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fIt\u2019s important that children have a balanced social life where they belong to a \u201cgroup.\u201d Bullies can ruin this by pushing their victims away from their usual social circles. This is one of the common signs of bullying at school. Therefore, you may notice that your child now hangs out alone when they used to be close to some of their friends. \u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fThis is more common among teen girls that tend to form cliques where thinly disguised bullying behavior is encouraged. If your child has become a target, their former friends will typically shun them and stop inviting them to social activities.\u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>\u200fYour Child May Adopt Bullying Behavior\u200f<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fBullying should never be condoned, but it can be sobering to realize that victims of bullying sometimes become bullies themselves. This happens as the child tries to gain control of their life. If the child doesn\u2019t receive adequate support to cope with the effects of bullying, they will lash out with bullying behavior towards siblings and friends. \u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fThat\u2019s why it\u2019s important also to recognize warning signs that your child is a bully. Typically, bullies will start fights and become increasingly aggressive. They may also partner with other bullies and get into trouble more frequently.\u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><b>\u200fYou May Notice Significant and Worrying Changes in Your Child<\/b><\/h2>\n<h2><b><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1788 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYou-May-Notice-Significant-and-Worrying-Changes-in-Your-Child\u200f.jpg\" alt=\"Close Up Sad African Girl Seated on Floor Feels Lonely\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYou-May-Notice-Significant-and-Worrying-Changes-in-Your-Child\u200f-200x133.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYou-May-Notice-Significant-and-Worrying-Changes-in-Your-Child\u200f-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYou-May-Notice-Significant-and-Worrying-Changes-in-Your-Child\u200f-400x267.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYou-May-Notice-Significant-and-Worrying-Changes-in-Your-Child\u200f-600x400.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYou-May-Notice-Significant-and-Worrying-Changes-in-Your-Child\u200f-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYou-May-Notice-Significant-and-Worrying-Changes-in-Your-Child\u200f-800x534.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/32\/2021\/11\/\u200fYou-May-Notice-Significant-and-Worrying-Changes-in-Your-Child\u200f.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/>\u200f<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fBullying can affect your child in many ways, and you may notice any of the following changes, which are a cause for concern:\u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u200fLoss of self-esteem.\u200f \u200f Prolonged bullying can eventually break down children\u2019s defenses, resulting in low self-esteem. For instance, a victim may stop feeling confident enough to talk and engage with others. They may also start dressing differently or try to make themselves small by hunching their shoulders and keeping their head down to avoid drawing attention to themselves.\u200f<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Strange online behavior.\u200f \u200f Cyberbullying is also on the rise, and it means that bullying can now affect young children and teens everywhere they go through the use of electronic devices. Victims of cyberbullying may start to avoid going online or become obsessed with their devices. In any case, online attacks can be as damaging as physical bullying.\u200f<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u200fEmotional outbursts.\u200f \u200f It\u2019s not uncommon for children to have emotional outbursts, but if your child constantly fails to get a handle on their emotions, they may be a victim of bullying. Victims of bullying can get upset and teary-eared without explanation because of the stress they\u2019re dealing with.\u200f<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u200fNegative talk about school topics.\u200f \u200f Not all kids love school, but if your child expresses strong and negative feelings about school topics, this sentiment might be colored by the experience of being bullied. This is especially so if they once enjoyed a certain subject or school activity but no longer do.\u200f<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> \u200fSelf-harming.\u200f \u200f The effects of bullying tend to snowball from low-self esteem to getting depressed and engaging in self-destructive behavior or talk of suicide. This should always be taken seriously, and you should seek professional help immediately.\u200f<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><b>\u200fNotice Any of These Signs of Bullying in Your Child? Worldwide Pediatrics Can Help\u200f<\/b><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200f<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC4109144\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Bullying in children<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> is a major public health concern. Given the signs above, bullying can have a huge negative impact on your child\u2019s health. At Worldwide Pediatrics, we are willing to do our part to help you recognize bullying and take the appropriate steps to manage its effects. \u200f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u200fIf necessary, our qualified and experienced staff will provide the medical care your child needs and also recommend other treatments to combat the effects of bullying. Request an appointment with us, and we will make sure your child gets the best possible care.\u200f<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As parents, it\u2019s important to recognize the \u200fwarning signs of bullying\u200f. Bullying is more prevalent than most people realize, and your child may not always speak up when it\u2019s happening. Knowing the following tell-tale signs of bullying enables you to act quickly, so your child doesn\u2019t keep suffering.\u200f \u200fBullying At School Tends to Affect Grades\u200f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1786,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[238,21],"tags":[243,240,244,239,242,241],"class_list":["post-1785","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bullying","category-childrens-health","tag-signs-of-being-bullied","tag-signs-of-bullying","tag-signs-of-bullying-at-school","tag-signs-your-child-is-being-bullied","tag-symptoms-of-bullying","tag-warning-signs-of-bullying"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1785","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1785"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1785\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1786"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1785"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1785"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.toplinemd.com\/worldwide-pediatrics\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1785"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}